
Nearly a year and a half later this still blows my mind! “Why can’t we get a bath or shower more than once a week?” asked I. “Because we would need to put on more aids to do this and there is not enough money!” she answered.
With the Nurse Practitioner I asked “Why can’t I consult with my own Doctor and have him send over a prescription both he and I know will care for this insufferable itching I get from the bedsheets?” She said: “Because we have an on staff a doctor who is salaried by us, paid by your fees. To have a doctor we are required to give him the exclusive right to treat patients while they are here.”
We went on in our exchange. “Why do I never see him?” In answer “Because he is too busy to see patients working the three days a week that he does. In this time he has so much research and records review he simply can’t take the time to see patients. That is my job and I report to him, if I can see him, which I can’t much of the time, he is too busy for me too.”
“Can I have my drug store deliver the prescription salve I have learned takes care of the skin condition my dermatologist diagnosed as contact dermatitis.” “No, you must get your drugs here and that is usually a five day wait if and after I tie down the doctor to prescribe it” went on the nurse practitioner.
“Why do so few of the aids and orderlies have any fluency whatsoever in our
English Language?” “They are all we can afford to get with the little money we have to hire them.” I was frustrated unable to communicate my needs through the language barrier. Although sounding xenophobic this was not. People immigrating should learn the language of the country but should have time to do so. But this won’t work if communication is part of their job
This was all told me after my Doctor sent me to what he and others described the best run “Home” in Minneapolis to recuperate from hip revision surgery until it was safe for me to go home.
As medical expense sky rocket and government funding dries up the purse for payment becomes smaller and tighter. Currently the climate for investment in Nursing Homes is good; 10 year ago it was not, the years before that it was bonanza city.
Regulation has become onerous, unified, one way serves all ways, our way not yours, the regulators say, what do you know? The companies Pay the best for the best administrators, lawyers, planners and investment counsel, keeping in mind it is the highest paid that are best because they are paying them the highest.
It is this circular reasoning that produces so much cost there is not enough left to pay the help.
A great article appeared today in The New Old Age Section of the New York Times entitled:
One Way to Judge a Nursing Home. (Click on it to go to it in my Archive)
There are Homes; there are services responsive to the families who need them. You just have to look. The article I have archived, the reading of which I recommended, is a sure fire way of evaluation of a nursing home.
There of course are other factors that can be evaluated. Size, setting, orderliness, demeanor of people who serve and are being served, quality of care offered by people providing care, their attitude, attitude and more attitude, all of these matter so much. Also check what hours are worked, the server to patient ratio and of course the food!
Ours is a readily altruistic society. Perhaps one of the better ways of providing the service needed in the most responsible and efficacious way is to do so at the lowest possible level. Our synagogues, churches, mosques, our eleemosynary groups, like charitable, benevolent, social service organizations are the best equipped at the grass roots to serve those same grass roots.
Organizing large for-profit investment ventures, homogenized down to serve the widest possible field of need is not the answer.
We are at a critical time in our economic life as a society and as a culture. The old ways are no longer working. Communism started its failure process in Russia in the ‘90’s. Socialism has whimpered to nowhere in Europe, neither finding success nor failure. China’s brand of tyrannical capitalism under the guise of revised communism seems to be working, but would any one really want that. There are some bright lights in the world, like Brazil, Singapore, India, Canada and a few others. But not one to them has demonstrated enough to suggest a formula that might be followed.
The U.S. has always been the light brighter than bright. But that is no more. Ours as a culture has crashed. Government is deadlocked. The Cabal of Global Corporations control the money, the media, more subtly than Big Brother modulate how and what we think and how we vote, fueling the deadlock its control has made of government.
The crash of 2008 was but the last in the stairway of lies and subterfuge which finally folded into irremedial failure.
Humpty Dumpty has fallen off the wall and broken his head. All of the Government Men and all the Corporation Hacks cannot put Humpty Dumpty together again.
We have depended on Capitalism for at least the past three centuries dating from the Enlightenment with its roots in the Renaissance following the fall of Medievalism. Capitalism boiled down carries this view:
Man is essentially greedy, competitive, out for himself and amoral in matters of money. Above all he cannot be trusted nor can he be depended upon.
If we are to be economically successful we require controls over man. We can subjugate him as has been true in history, or, we can apply technology to control there otherwise unsavory traits by empowering and directing them by commercial competition.
No longer should we issue edicts against many “isms” to prohibit man’s baser instincts. Instead we can control them using this formula:
Open the playing field allowing each man to compete with every other man. Leave him be free and unfettered to just compete. With all competing against all others they will control each other automatically. Man’s selfish ingenuity exercised as competition will control the same drive in those against whom he competes. Like Chaos is said to do, this will produce order and right.
A great idea this; it has worked for centuries. But, its fissure has been identified as it has been rent by all that which came together in 2008 and there is no hope of resolution or repair.
We as a society and a culture face a cataclysmic renovation and renewal. This will either end in control being taken by one or an oligarchy of more forcing its way on us as in China or an altogether new and different way of our living as an organized society.
This should start with the question we hear from young people who are opting out of competition. They are asking each other “How can I help?”